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A sexual relationship, in my opinion, is something too important to be wasted in a purely instinctual pleasure and one person in transit; should never be only sexual outlet, but the culmination of a shared act of love
Franco Libero Manco


It may seem odd not to agree on free sexual expression in a period in history when we finally got rid of old taboos imposed by false moralizing. After all, what's wrong if two people love each other by obtaining a grant you pleasure? The problem arises when sex becomes a physical and psychological need to condition the very existence of an individual to the point of making it able to do anything to satisfy the desire: the daily news is full of crimes related to sexual abuse. I believe that there is no force more powerful and engaging universe to the point that a person could give to all sexually normal but not to sex, except for religious or spiritual ends votes.

And 'too easy to follow your instincts, and the pleasures of sex, but it is difficult to have the ability not to be slaves of their instincts. I think the purpose of existence of every human being is to be free from any conditioning, physical, mental and instinctual. Who has the ability to impose its will on your instinct is not a free man, but a slave of himself, of his impulses. Being the master of your will and your body this is what makes man capable of determining their existence, and above all, to perceive the affinities of those who will become the companion of our life. Sentimental approach, especially among young people, is predominantly sexual attraction it is difficult to verify the fundamental similarities that should be the basis of a loving relationship and a stable and harmonious coexistence. From the lack of family harmony children will pay the consequences with the inevitable repercussions on society. If mate choice in the physical and sexual attraction is predominant compared to the happiness and moral cultural affinities between the two is sure to be random: the infatuation, passion, desire passes sooner or later and remains the true nature of the other, that we did not know why dazzled sexual desire. Sex clouds, blunts, do see things differently from what they really are not paves the contrasts, only sends them.

A sexual relationship, in my opinion, is something too important to be wasted in a purely instinctual pleasure and one person in transit; should never be only sexual outlet, but the culmination of a labor of love shared. Among other things in the free sexual expression we neglect the value of seed only wasting the seed end of pleasure, in my opinion, is like despising the amazing potential of our bodies ability to give life to a human being.

Generally neglect the effects of free sex is the birth of unwanted children, or that I consider abortion a crime against those who did not ask to exist and who does not have the ability to defend itself. Sex, like a double edged sword, it's always been a source of violent conflicts and even wars, not to mention rapes whose effects are often devastating ruin the whole of existence, sex tourism of children, child prostitution and so on. Most people think, hypocritically, prostitution as an activity to be scorned and despised, but falls into contradiction when he uses it in any form.

To avoid the many negative aspects that can produce continence is considered necessary to abolish all inhibitions and taboos, the same way as drugs: is believed to contain the problem by legalizing its free drink, not intervening in a man who has not the need to take drugs. The same struggles that occur in nature between animals trying to mate would occur among humans if they could not find alternative channels. Probably if the man could not satisfy his sexual instinct would be willing to do anything, even worse things.

It is said that sex is part of our lives, like drinking, eating and sleeping, a natural instinct to which there is no plausible reason for having to give up. Drinking, eating and sleeping are necessities of life: they would refrain from dying, and abstain from sex is not only endangers the lives of individuals but you can live well, even better because you are free to choose, without constraints. Accustom your body to have sex is like drinking salted water: you drink more and more thirsty. It 'a vicious cycle that forces you to meet the need at any cost, often losing dignity. Each repressed desire, unfulfilled, generates suffering, tension, nervousness. The desire satisfied, but extinguishes the burning thirst returns in a persistent cycle.

What sense does it make sexual experience before marriage as if physical love require special preparation? When there's love every possible difficulty is overcome, unless organ dysfunction. The joy and the benefits that you have the knowledge to be free from instinctual conditioning is far superior to the ephemeral pleasure of intercourse for its own sake. I remind the faithful that, according to the biblical texts, a girl's virginity was the essential condition for the incarnate Son of God on earth

No, I think, would be betrayed by your boyfriend or girlfriend, yet the majority of married people or girlfriends, betrays the pair bond. In this case you do to others what you would not want for ourselves. And 'the sexual act that can ruin any good relationship: none of us would condemn a platonic love.

True love is the one who would be willing to give up sex rather than lose the person he loves. This I believe is the measure of verification: if I were ugly and deformed love me anyway? Try to exclude the sexual component of the person you think you love and you will see it as it really is, with its defects and its inherent moral, mental and spiritual. It 'easy to say that we love for its physical component, when in fact his body is, in essence, a prerequisite to our alliance. What's wrong with that? Nothing, if you are always masters of their body, mind and conscience, instinct takes us all if we want to go and where not prevent us from being free and able to be creators of our lives, our choices.

Or are we like other animals with the natural right to have many mating partener and how, when and with whom we like, or we are destined to rule, govern the instincts so as not to be slaves of our impulses. Nature is indulged in what helps us evolve into what does not bind us to disharmonious instincts of an ancestral past.

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